Most of us women have all experienced the heartache of a break up. I’ll be honest with you, it’s one of the most painful experiences one could ever endure. I found myself becoming bitter, depressed, feeling unwanted and the list goes on. I’d often ask God why, why create love ? Why create something that’s supposed to be a “good” thing into a bad thing ? like why… Am I not allowed to be happy?? What could I have possibly done that was so bad in your eyes that you couldn’t forgive me and chose to punish me?
At 24 yrs old, I got pregnant to a man whom I thought was the man of my dreams. A year later he disappeared and never returned. No calls, texts, emails, fax, no letter trapped in a bottle at sea; absolutely nothing. I was devastated, angry and broken. I carried this brokenness everywhere and when I mean every where, every where. But let’s rewind for a little bit; in the beginning of us dating, there were red flags all throughout but because of the connection I felt I had with him, I ignored ALL of the signs and kept it moving. I figured eventually it’ll change.. silly me!
Here’s what I realized, every woman has the desire to love and be happy but not every woman taps into their God given gift to protect their heart. That inner voice that’s reminding you about the concerns you have aka red flags of this person aren’t just there, they’re actually there to protect you; yet we ignore it. We want to be in a relationship so badly that we give these dead weight relationships the benefit of the doubt, we wait and just pray to God things change. Well, it won’t! There’s a saying I used to say “you can’t help who you fall in love with.” bwahaha that’s a whole load of crap. You can ABSOLUTELY help who you fall in love with. Love is a beautiful thing and it should never be downplayed because God is love. As long as you’re listening to that inner voice aka holy spirit, it will help protect your heart, mind, body & soul; it will never stare you wrong.
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